Wondering if we are speaking the same language.
Loving you with the intent to understand
Socialization often acts as quick sand
Adapting to the next trend
Loosing a little bit of ourselves every time we don’t take a moment to breath in.
And reflect on our true desires.
Do you o to be married?
Do you want kids?
Could you be my Polly friend?
Honesty and transparency is not always the goal.
Especially when the truth is difficult.
We all benefit from a relationship in someway
Somehow we are so afraid to name the thing we are willing to take.
I see how you treat me I ask you if you want to explore something new or
different
And you lie anyways
Just to keep me close
our passionate genuine exchanges is what you love the most.
And I love loving you so somehow I find myself allowing you to rest.
I don’t ever want to add to a black man’s stress
But if I’m applying pressure it’s because I want you to function at your best!
I allow you to Rest because black men are oppressed
And the black families are attacked - I’m trying to communicate to you my
goals.
when you get to me I want so bad to relieve your soul
This is how I know I was called to be a wife.
My level of empathy,care and attention I’m willing to pay to a Black Man I find
deserving is one of my purposes in life
But I’m wondering if we’re speaking the same language?
Are you able to relate to where we are and where we can be?
This is social relatability
I love love I love talking about love I love intentionally unemotionally landing
on the topic of love . But I want a man that can also socially relate to me.
So black man if I tell you I love you I mean that.
If I treat you like a king it’s because you deserve it.
And when I tell you I’m listening and working to understand you I hope you feel
me.
--Desiree M., Adult